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Advice From The 80s - Part 1

I'm sorry that I have been so quiet lately. We closed on our first house on August 20, and since then, we were getting ready to move. We were only moving 40 minutes up the road, so we took boxes of stuff over to our new house almost every day.  When I was unpacking some boxes in our bedroom, I came across one of my keepsakes boxes. I decided to take a small break from unpacking and go through the box to see what was inside. I found a baseball I got signed by John Smoltz after the Atlanta Braves won the World Series, the program from my first Jacksonville Jaguars game, senior pictures, a flag flown over the capital in honor of me receiving the rank of Eagle Scout, and much more.  I then found a red bag with a blue border and white polka dots. Written on the front of the bag were the words: Mom's Bag Of Tricks. Inside the bag were big index cards with advice and tricks that her friends and family wanted her to have. The cards all had dates on them, and they were given to her rig...

Mustache Baby - Accidental Find To A Favorite Story

The love of reading is something that we want to instill in Asher. Reading is something that Abby and I both love.  To help jumpstart Asher's book collection, for his baby shower, we asked people to bring a baby book instead of a card.  My parents have a bookstore near their house called 2nd & Charles, a store that sells new and used books.  Unfortunately, we do not have one near us, so I always like to make a trip to that store whenever I visit my parents. When Asher was about a month old, we decided to take him to visit his only great-grandparent that was still alive. We stayed with my parents during this trip, you know I had to check out 2nd & Charles. I don't remember much about this trip to 2nd & Charles, except for one book,  Mustache Baby . How did I find  Mustache Baby ? I was in their baby section going through the books, and I decided to head over to the clearance tables. When going around the tables, I saw a stack of books next to the tabl...

Becoming A Full-Time Father

Normal. According to Merriam-Webster, normal is conforming to a type, standard, or regular pattern. Unlike most relationships, Abby and I had a long-distance relationship for four years. The closest we lived to each other while dating was one hour. We didn't even live in the same town until a year before we got married. Not normal. One year before we got married, I ended up renting a room from my soon to be brother-in-law and his family. Abby and I now only lived ten minutes from each other. Today, it seems normal for people to live with each other before they get married. We never did that, even when we lived in the same town. Not normal. Abby had known since she was little that she wanted to be a pharmacist when she grew up. After she graduated high school, that became her focus.  For me, math has always been a subject that I liked. I even got my associate degree in accounting, but I didn't want to be a CPA. Accounting, for me, makes sense. Numbers have to add up and can'...